intimacy, transparency, women & porn addiction, women & same-sex attraction

Finding the Intimacy We Were Created For

Years ago I found myself completely absorbed in a fantasy world. To look at me on the outside, everything was fine. I grew up believing my behavior around others was more important than what was actually going on inside of me. I started turning to pornography and fantasy to alleviate all of the pain going on inside… Read More Finding the Intimacy We Were Created For

temptation, women & same-sex attraction

“If I Could Only Experience Being With Another Woman Just One Time…”

I have been writing increasingly more and more over the years to encourage women who struggle with same-sex attraction. This is a struggle I have walked through, myself. I know the confusion, pain and loneliness that can go with it. Over the years I have noticed several lies that the enemy collectively throws at women… Read More “If I Could Only Experience Being With Another Woman Just One Time…”

friendships, temptation, transparency, women & same-sex attraction

Finding Accountability for a Porn Struggle When You Also Experience Same-Sex Attraction

When I first started seeking help for a pornography addiction several years ago, I ran into some very awkward situations. It’s awkward having to admit you have been looking at porn in the first place; but the shame you can feel admitting you are a Christian woman who has been watching lesbian porn can feel… Read More Finding Accountability for a Porn Struggle When You Also Experience Same-Sex Attraction

heart healing, women & porn addiction, women & same-sex attraction

How I Learned To Fight Against Lust

Are you battling lust? Have you considered it harmless, because the man or woman you’re lusting after doesn’t even know about the thoughts you have been entertaining? You aren’t physically committing any kind of sin with them, right? God tells us differently: Matthew 5:28 says, “But I tell you that anyone who looks at a… Read More How I Learned To Fight Against Lust