“…I have been married to my husband for 20 years, but I have fallen in love with my best friend. I don’t know how this happened…” “…I have this one friend, and she has become everything to me. I have never felt this way about another woman before, and I’m not sure what to do…”… Read More More Than Just Friends: When Women’s Friendships Become Enmeshed
It was ten years ago today that I confessed a pornography addiction to my husband. It was consuming me, and I felt as though it was killing me slowly from the inside out. I was trapped. In confessing this to him, I had to admit that I was wrestling with an attraction to women and… Read More How Porn Warped My View of Men and Women (and How Jesus Restored My Heart)
Do you hesitate forming close friendships because you want to honor God but you also experience same-sex attractions? Are you haunted by, “How close is too close?” when it comes to friendships? Maybe your friendship with someone has become so intense that now you are now emotionally enmeshed and/or sexually involved, and you don’t know… Read More How To Develop Healthy Friendships When Struggling With Same-Sex Attractions (video)
When I first started seeking help for a pornography addiction several years ago, I ran into some very awkward situations. It’s awkward having to admit you have been looking at porn in the first place; but the shame you can feel admitting you are a Christian woman who has been watching lesbian porn can feel… Read More Finding Accountability for a Porn Struggle When You Also Experience Same-Sex Attraction